452: COURAGE: ESSENTIAL TRAIT FOR LEADERSHIP

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“Courage is the virtue that is at the centre of the golden mean between foolhardiness (excessive courage) and cowardice (insufficient courage)”.

-Aristotle

 

Courage is essential for great leadership. Without courage, leaders can’t do the things they must do. Courage is the mental and moral strength which helps us venture forth, confront danger, face our fears and challenges, and persevere.

 

Courage is one quality that drives transformational leadership and personal and institutional success. It is the single most decisive trait in a leader. Without it, one cannot lead as leaders without courage are not inspiring and not worth following.

 

“leaders who lack courage aren’t leaders.”

-John McCain, former U.S. Senator and Navy veteran

 

We often think of physical courage, but there are different types of courage – emotional, intellectual, social, moral, and spiritual courage.

 

Widely popular beliefs are that “Courage is big heroic acts” and “it is an attribute that only a few extraordinary leaders possess because they are born with it”.

 

Most courageous acts are small, but they are never insignificant. Small courageous acts stacked upon each other add up. These even include doing the right thing when it’s not easy and trying again right after failing.

 

One of the definitions of Courage is – “ability to do something that frightens you.”

 

Being fearless is not the same as being courageous.

 

Courageous leaders create clarity, not confusion.

 

A lack of courage creates stagnation.

 

Courage is a skill that anyone can develop.

 

Courageous leadership entails many things, including:-

 

    • Stopping ourselves when we’re about to do something wrong.
    • Challenging others when they’re about to do something wrong.
    • Setting boundaries and saying no sometimes even when it may disappoint or anger others.
    • Challenging injustices.
    • Making decisions and moving forward despite limited information.
    • Stepping into challenging situations where there’s conflict, instead of avoiding such situations.
    • Being willing to be wrong sometimes.
    • Shaking things up to move forward instead of playing it safe and maintaining the status quo.
    • Taking risks and being willing to fail fast and learn.
    • Demanding action.
    • Following through to make sure things are done right.
    • Holding people accountable for core commitments.

 

Building up Courage:-

 

    • Quantify the Best Possible Outcome. Our brains constantly evaluate either the pain or gain in every situation. Highlighting the benefits and allowing the brain to visualise them is a decisive step in the process of being more courageous.

 

    • Acknowledge your Fears. Write Down the Worst Possible Outcome. The human brain processes fear and control the responses to it. It is wired to avoid things that can be harmful. Getting in the habit of writing down the worst possible outcome often provides insight that the worst scenario isn’t actually all that bad.

 

    • Deal with the Emotions. Emotions such as doubt or fear do exist and being open and honest about them is not a weakness but a strength.

 

“Emotions are data, not directives. We get to choose who we want to be; our emotions don’t.”

 

    • Trust your Instincts. Sometimes, the most courageous thing you can do is trust your gut. If something feels off, don’t be afraid to speak up and voice your concerns.

 

    • Stretch Yourself. Challenge yourself by taking the initiative to push yourself out of your comfort zone. This is where real growth begins.

 

    • Take Calculated Risks. Before making any decision, consider the potential risks and benefits, and weigh them carefully. If you believe the benefits outweigh the risks, then take the leap.

 

    • Fail to Succeed. There’s not a single success story on the planet that didn’t evolve out of some mistake or the other. When you fail, take the time to reflect on what went wrong and what you would do differently the next time.

 

A courageous leader sets his fears aside and leads his people, team, and organisation to a better place.

 

“Courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.” 

-Nelson Mandela

 

 

 Quotations

 

“It’s easy to stand with the crowd. It takes courage to stand alone.”

-Mahatma Gandhi

 

“Without courage, all other virtues lose their meaning.”

-Winston Churchill

 

“You’ll never do anything in this world without courage. It’s the greatest quality of the mind next to honour.”

-Aristotle

 

“Courage faces fear and thereby masters it. Cowardice represses fear and is thereby mastered by it.”

-Martin Luther King

 

“God, grant me the courage not to give up what I think is right even though I think it is hopeless.”

 -Chester Nimitz, U.S. Navy Admiral

  

 “When we practice the behaviours of courage, we become courageous.”

-Gus Lee with Diane Elliott-Lee

 

 “One man with courage makes a majority.”

 -Andrew Jackson

 

 

“Courage was the X factor in change. Courage is the virtue that’s needed if we’re truly going to transform our lives. Courage is the virtue that’s needed if we’re going to enact anything that is significantly important to us. Courage is the virtue that’s needed if we’re going to change the status quo.”

-James Kouzes and Barry Posner, A Leader’s Legacy

 

 

“Courage is not the absence of fear, but the capacity to act despite our fears.”

-John McCain, war hero and former U.S. Senator

 

 

“You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing which you think you cannot do.” 

-Eleanor Roosevelt, former First Lady, diplomat, and activist

 

 

“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts.”

-Winston Churchill, former British Prime Minister

 

“Courage is contagious. When a brave man takes a stand, the spines of others are stiffened.”

-Billy Graham

 

 

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408: SHIQURDU 41: रिश्ते

 

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दिल किसी की ना सुने

 

दिमाग ने कहा वो अजनबी है, एक सपना है।

दिल ने कहा फिर भी अपना है ।

 

दिमाग ने कहा वो दो पल की मुलाकात है।

दिल ने कहा ये सदियों का साथ है।

 

दिमाग ने कहा वो एक भूल है।

दिल ने कहा फिर भी कबूल है।

 

 

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किसी को नजरों में ना बसाओ,

 नजरों में सिर्फ “सपने  बसते हैं,

 

बसाना ही है तो दिल में बसाओ,

 दिल में सिर्फ “अपने बसते हैं।

 

 

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छुपे छुपे रहते है सरेआम नही होते,

कुछ रिश्ते बस एहसास होते हैं

उनके नाम नही होते।

 

 

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जिंदगी  के  पल कुछ यूं गुजर जाते हैं,

 

कुछ अपने अनजान हो जाते हैं 

 

और कुछ अनजाने अपने हो जाते हैं

 

 

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टूटता है तो चुभता  है,

काँच, ख्वाब, रिश्ता, और दिल

 

 

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जिंदगी की राह में मिले होंगे हजार मुसाफिर तुमको,

लेकिन जिंदगीभर ना भुला पाओगे वो मुलाक़ात हूँ मैं

 

 

  • Shiqurdu is a collection of thoughts. Although an odd-sounding name felt appropriate for the collection.

 

  • These are simplified quotes in Hurdu (Hurdu being a mix of Hindi and Urdu akin to Hinglish i.e., Hindi and English). Although in some cases the language has been simplified attempt has been made to retain the thought and the poetic flavor.

 

  • These thoughts have been picked up from various publications. Credit goes to all the original writers who penned down these deep-meaning messages.

 

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380: LISTEN TO KRISHNA

 

Happy Janmashtami

 

  1. “Happiness Is A State Of Mind, That Has Nothing To Do With The External World.” – Lord Krishna

 

  1. “It Is Better To Live Your Own Destiny Imperfectly Than To Live An Imitation Of Somebody Else’s Life With Perfection.” – Lord Krishna

 

  1. “A Man Is Made By His Beliefs. As He Believes. So He Becomes.” – Lord Krishna

 

  1. “The Only Way You Can Conquer Me Is Through Love, And There I Am Gladly Conquered.” – Lord Krishna

 

  1. “The Key To Happiness Is The Reduction Of Desires.” – Lord Krishna

 

  1. “Do Everything You Have To Do, But Not With Ego, Not With Lust, Not With Envy But With Love, Compassion, Humility, And Devotion.” – Lord Krishna

 

  1. “There Are Three Gates To Self-destruction And Hell: Lust, Anger & Greed.” – Lord Krishna

 

  1. “Set Your Heart Upon Your Work But Never Its Reward.” – Lord Krishna

 

  1. “Why Do You Worry Unnecessarily? Whom Do You Fear? Who Can Kill You? The Soul Is Neither Born Nor Dies.” – Lord Krishna

 

  1. “A Gift Is Pure When It Is Given From The Heart To The Right Person At The Right Time And At The Right Place, And When We Expect Nothing In Return.” – Lord Krishna

 

  1. “The Mind Is Fickle. It Won’t Obey You Every Time The Mind Misbehaves, Use Your Discretionary Intellect To Bring It Back To The Equanimous Position.” – Lord Krishna

 

  1. “Change Is the Law of the Universe. You Can Be a Millionaire or a Pauper in an Instant.” – Lord Krishna

 

  1. “Perform Your Obligatory Duty, Because Action Is Indeed Better Than Inaction.” – Lord Krishna

 

  1. “Among All Kind Of Killers, Time Is The Ultimate Because Time Kills Everything.” – Lord Krishna

 

  1. “He Who Has No Attachments Can Really Love Others, For His Love Is Pure And Devine.” – Lord Krishna

 

  1. “When A Person Responds To The Joys And Sorrows Of Others As Though They Were His Own, He Or She Has Attained The Highest Spiritual Union.” – Lord Krishna

 

  1. “For One Who Has Conquered His Mind, A Mind Is Best Of Friends, But For One Who Has Failed To Do So, A Mind Is The Greatest Enemy.” – Lord Krishna

 

  1. “You Have The Right To Work, But Never To The Fruit Of Work.” – Lord Krishna

 

  1. “Calmness, Gentleness, Silence, Self-restraint And Purity: These Are The Disciplines Of The Mind.” – Lord Krishna

 

  1. “Whatever Happened Was Good. What’s Happening Is Going Well. Whatever Will Happen Will Also Be Good. Do Not Worry About The Future. Live In The Present.” – Lord Krishna

 

GIST OF GEETA

 

Chapter 1 – Wrong thinking is the only problem in life.

Chapter 2 – Right knowledge is the ultimate solution to all our problems.

Chapter 3 – Selflessness is the only way to progress and prosperity.

Chapter 4 – Every act can be an act of prayer.

Chapter 5 – Renounce the ego of individuality and rejoice the bliss of infinity.

Chapter 6 – Connect to the higher consciousness daily.

Chapter 7 – Live what you learn.

Chapter 8 – Never give up on yourself.

Chapter 9 – Value your blessings.

Chapter 10 – See divinity all around.

Chapter 11 – Have enough surrender to see the truth as it is.

Chapter 12 – Absorb your mind in the higher.

Chapter 13 – Detach from Maya and attach to divine.

Chapter 14 – Live a life- style that matches your vision.

Chapter 15 – Give priority to Divinity.

Chapter 16 – Being good is a reward in itself.

Chapter 17 – Choosing the right over the pleasant is a sign of power.

Chapter 18 – Let go, let us move to union with God .

 

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