43: EARNING RESPECT

“Respect yourself and others will respect you.”

Confucius

“I firmly believe that respect is a lot more important, and a lot greater, than popularity.”

Julius Erving

 

Respectability matters a lot. Respectful people are sincere, magnanimous, kind, genuine, transparent and empathetic. Respect cannot be demanded it has to be earned. 

  • Be humble.

 

  • Do not brag.

 

  • Be light hearted.

 

  • Be Passionate.

 

  • Focus on meaningful interactions

 

  • Celebrate the success of our friends and colleagues.

 

  • Laugh more.

 

  • Be inquisitive.

 

  • Control your emotions.

 

  • Be original.

 

  • Avoid third party conversations, gossip, innuendo, and small talk.

 

  • Be open minded and listen to what other people’s views and perspectives.

 

  • Last and most important – Detach yourself from your phone.

Reference: Anatomy of Success, by Steve Wohlenhaus

34: Body Language for the Virtual World

Early this year a  transition started from face-to-face gatherings to virtual meetings.

In-person meetings bring a level of connection and trust that is difficult to get in virtual meetings.

Nonverbal cues are important for the right impact in the virtual meetings.

1.First impression

Judgment is made about attitude, confidence, professional status, and personal warmth.

Face to face meeting.  Impression is made by your physical energy, the way you carry yourself, gestures, eye contact and the pitch of your voice. First impression is made in about 7 sec.

Virtual meeting. It is gathered mainly from the facial expressions. It is much faster in hundreds of milliseconds. Have a pleasing, interested expression and enter the meet with correct expression.

Continue reading “34: Body Language for the Virtual World”

33: Some more Interesting Maxims for Leaders & Managers

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Showing is more effective then telling.

12

Visitors always give pleasure.

If not when they come, then when they leave.

13

When you Hear & you forget,

When you See & you remember,

When you Do & you Understand.

14

Value Time.

It is a diminishing resource.

15

You are not fully dressed until you wear a smile.

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To sell well you must tell well.

17

Let your brain wear out and not rust out.

18

Praise loudly,

Blame softly.

19

Learn to listen.

Opportunity knocks very softly.

20

You cannot give away kindness.

It always comes back.

 

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