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Leadership Series: Emotional Intelligence / Emotional Quotient

Emotional intelligence (otherwise also known as emotional quotient or EQ) helps in building stronger relationships, success at work, and achieving career and personal goals. It can also help one to connect with their feelings, turn intention into action, and make informed decisions about what matters most.

 

Defining EQ / EI

Emotional intelligence is defined as the ability to perceive, use, understand and manage emotions. People with high emotional intelligence can recognize their own emotions and those of others, use emotional information to guide thinking and behavior, discern between different feelings and label them appropriately, and adjust emotions to adapt to environments.

Emotional intelligence is the ability to understand, use, and manage your own emotions in positive ways to relieve stress, communicate effectively, empathize with others, overcome challenges and defuse conflict.

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SHIQURDU 16

  • Shiqurdu is a collection of thoughts. Although an odd sounding name, but felt appropriate for the collection.

 

  • These are simplified quotes in Hurdu (Hurdu being a mix of Hindi and Urdu akin to Hinglish i.e., hindi and english). Although in some cases the language has been simplified but attempt has been made to retain the thought and the poetic flavor.

 

  • These thoughts have been picked up from various publications. Credit goes to all the original writers who penned down these deep meaning messages.

 

93

गलतियों से जुदा तु भी नहीं, मै भी नहीं,

गलतफहमियों ने कर दी दोनो मे पैदा दूरियां,

वरना फितरत का बुरा, तु भी नहीं, मैं भी नहीं!

 

94

जिंदगी

अधूरी तो नहीं – पूरी भी नहीं

उलझी तो नहीं – सुलझी भी नहीं

मझधार तो नहीं – पार भी नहीं

 

95

मुकद्दर की किताब

साँसे गिनती की

और..

ख्वाहिशें बेहिसाब

 

96

वक्त का पता नहीं चलता

अपनों के साथ….

पर अपनों का पता चलता है,

वक्त के साथ

 

97

संयम

एक युद्ध…

अपने ही विरुद्ध

 

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Interaction with the Country’s Youth.

Got a chance to interact with the youth of the country.

 

 

 

Covered some aspects related to “Life as a Fighter Pilot”

 

  • Need for passion, boldness, attitude, aggressiveness and  self confidence in fighter flying.

 

  • It is not all Glamour.

 

  • It involves lot of hard work.

 

  • It involves lot of studies.

 

  • Aspects related to risk and safety.

 

  • Importance of physical and mental fitness.

 

  • Importance of self discipline.

 

  • Importance of  qualities like courage, integrity, loyalty, dedication, dependability and reliability.

 

Advice given to the youth

 

  • Know yourself (Strengths, weaknesses, likes and dislikes).

 

  • Follow your dream.

 

  • Pursue happiness.

 

  • Be a good human being first then a good professional.

 

  • There is no short cut to hard work.

 

  • Be Humble, honest, helpful, truthful and  tolerant.

 

  • Most Important – Always keep the child in you alive. 

 

Questions and answer session was interesting. Admire the awareness level of the youth. Questions were very relevant, incisive and precise. Questions were related to following:

 

  • Role of IAF and its future.

 

  • Defence selection procedures and need for review.

 

  • Self reliance in defence equipment.

 

  • Pressures faced during career and dealing mechanism.

 

  • Rafale aircraft.

 

  • LCA Tejas aircraft.

 

  • IAF capability enhancement.

 

  • Balakot operations.

 

Enjoyed the interaction immensely

 

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