THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN STRENGTH AND COURAGE

 

It takes strength to be firm.

It takes courage to be gentle.

 

It takes strength to stand guard.

It takes courage to let down your guard.

 

It takes strength to conquer

It takes courage to surrender.

 

It takes strength to be certain.

It takes courage to have doubt.

 

It takes strength to fit in.

It takes courage to stand out.

 

It takes strength to feel a friend’s pain.

It takes courage to feel your own pain.

 

It takes strength to hide feelings.

It takes courage to show them.

 

It takes strength to endure abuse.

It takes courage to stop it.

 

It takes strength to stand alone.

It takes courage to lean on another.

 

It takes strength to love.

It takes courage to be loved.

 

It takes strength to survive.

It takes courage to live.

 

Bottom Line

It needs both a combination of Strength and Courage to be a good leader.

 

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Shark in the Tank

There are many management theories which we use in our day to day life. Some knowingly and some unknowingly.

 

I was lucky to have number of command appointments in my service career.

 

I always shared my experiences with the young budding commanders.

 

One of the advice used to be – “As a commander you have to put the shark in the tank at the right time”.

 

The Story

 

The Japanese love eating fresh fish. But the fish got depleted, in the waters close to sea shore, due to over fishing. So the Japanese fishing boats got bigger and went farther from the shores.  The farther the fishermen went, the longer it took to bring in the fish. If the return trip took more than a few days, the fish would lose their freshness.

 

To solve this problem, fishing companies installed freezers on their boats. They would catch the fish and freeze them at sea. Freezers allowed the boats to go farther and stay longer. However, the frozen fish did not taste the same as fresh fish and the frozen fish brought a lower price.

 

So fishing companies installed fish tanks. This solved the problem to a certain extent. However, to make adequate profit, the fish tanks started getting overstuffed, with little room for the fish to thrash around. The fish stopped moving and started losing their freshness once again.

 

To keep the fish tasting fresh, the Japanese fishing companies still put the fish in the tanks. But now they added a small shark to each tank. The shark would eat a few fish, but most of the remaining fish would remain active and fresh.

 

Lesson & Recommendation

 

“Man thrives, oddly enough, only in the presence of a challenging environment.”

– L. Ron Hubbard

 

So in the unit, establishment or group an optimum level of activity and excitement has to be maintained to keep the group and the people productive, active, healthy and happy.

 

Too much of work for too long would burn them off with fatigue and too little work would cause reduction in output due to boredom and inactivity.

 

As a commander and leader one has to maintain that optimum level of activity and know when to put the shark in the tank and for how long.

 

Addendum

Some times as a commander one needs to become the shark himself.

 

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SHIQURDU: 20

 

 

116

जो जाहिर हो जाए वह दर्द कैसा

और

जो दर्द को महसूस ना कर सके

वह हमदर्द कैसा..

 

117

चले तो थे दोस्तों का पूरा काफिला लेकर…

पर कुछ “जुदा” हो गए

कुछ “खुदा” हो गए…

कुछ “गुमशुदा” हो गए,

और

 

कुछ “शादीशुदा” हो गए,

 

118

किस्मत की किताब

खूब लिखी थी मेरी खुदा ने

बस वही पन्ना गुम था

जिसमे सकूं का जिक्र था.

 

119

कील के  हौसले की तरह टिके  रहो .

तस्वीरों का क्या.

वो तो वक्त के साथ बदलती हैं

 

120

जुबानी इबादत ही काफ़ी नहीं

ख़ुदा सुनता  है ख़यालात भी

 

  • Shiqurdu is a collection of thoughts. Although an odd sounding name, but felt appropriate for the collection.

 

  • These are simplified quotes in Hurdu (Hurdu being a mix of Hindi and Urdu akin to Hinglish i.e., hindi and english). Although in some cases the language has been simplified but attempt has been made to retain the thought and the poetic flavor.

 

  • These thoughts have been picked up from various publications. Credit goes to all the original writers who penned down these deep meaning messages.

 

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