36: SHIQURDU 3

 

  • Shiqurdu is a collection of thoughts. Although an odd sounding name, but felt appropriate for the collection.
  • These are simplified quotes in Hurdu (Hurdu being a mix of Hindi and Urdu akin to Hinglish i.e., hindi and english). Although in some cases the language has been simplified but attempt has been made to retain the thought and the poetic flavor.
  • These thoughts have been picked up from various publications. Credit goes to all the original writers who penned down these deep meaning messages.

 

21

छोटी सी है ज़िंदगी, हर बात में ख़ुश रहो,

कल किसने देखा है, अपने आज में खुश रहो,

 

22

लिख कर मिटा दिया कुछ ख़्वाबों को

हर ख्वाब सच हो ज़रूरी तो नहीं

 

23

है ज़िन्दगी तो अपने हैं

हैं अपने तो ज़िन्दगी है

 

24

उनका इल्जाम लगाने का अंदाज़ ऐसा ग़ज़ब का था

कि हमने ख़ुद अपने ही खिलाफ गवाही दे दी

 

25

छोटी सी है ज़िंदगी हर बात में खुश रहो,

क्यों तड़पते हो हर पल किसी के साथ को

कभी-कभी अपने आप में खुश रहो

 

26

इत्तफ़ाक़ से तो नहीं टकराते लोग दो

कुछ साज़िश तो ख़ुदा ने भी की होगी

 

27

दिमाग़ का लिखा सभी पढ़ सके, सभी समझ सके

दिल का लिखा सभी पढ़ सके, कुछ ही समझ सके

 

28

किताबो में दर्ज हुआ सीखते रहे

ज़िन्दगी कुछ और ही सिखा गयी

 

29

किताब-ए-दिल का कोई सफा़ खाली नहीं होता

कदरदार तो वो भी पढ़ लेते हैं, जो लिखा नहीं होता

 

30

अपनों से लड़ के क्या पाओगे

जीत कर भी हार जाओगे

हार कर भी जीत जाओगे

34: Body Language for the Virtual World

Early this year a  transition started from face-to-face gatherings to virtual meetings.

In-person meetings bring a level of connection and trust that is difficult to get in virtual meetings.

Nonverbal cues are important for the right impact in the virtual meetings.

1.First impression

Judgment is made about attitude, confidence, professional status, and personal warmth.

Face to face meeting.  Impression is made by your physical energy, the way you carry yourself, gestures, eye contact and the pitch of your voice. First impression is made in about 7 sec.

Virtual meeting. It is gathered mainly from the facial expressions. It is much faster in hundreds of milliseconds. Have a pleasing, interested expression and enter the meet with correct expression.

Continue reading “34: Body Language for the Virtual World”

33: Some more Interesting Maxims for Leaders & Managers

11

Showing is more effective then telling.

12

Visitors always give pleasure.

If not when they come, then when they leave.

13

When you Hear & you forget,

When you See & you remember,

When you Do & you Understand.

14

Value Time.

It is a diminishing resource.

15

You are not fully dressed until you wear a smile.

16

To sell well you must tell well.

17

Let your brain wear out and not rust out.

18

Praise loudly,

Blame softly.

19

Learn to listen.

Opportunity knocks very softly.

20

You cannot give away kindness.

It always comes back.

 

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