Embrace life’s journey, every experience, good or bad, has been a stepping stone to the person you’ve become today.
Embrace every phase, every stumble; they’re crafting your story. Each trial, each moment of doubt, is a lesson to be grasped.
Life’s journey is filled with both shadows and light. Every step on the winding path and every stone crossed holds the promise of growth and the beauty of a new dawn.
Treat your quirks like badges of honour, through these encounters, we truly get to know ourselves and understand our place in the world.
Negative Feelings. There will be negative feelings. They are like passing clouds and part of the journey called life. Do not let them define you or cloud your mind. Accept and understand them, and move forward without getting anchored down.
Fear of Unknown. There are times when the fear of the unknown terrifies you. Keep the faith and trust the process. Life has a funny way of surprising us, even the darkest of nights, have a promise of dawn.
Face the Challenge. Every challenge is an avenue of growth. It might initially seem difficult or insurmountable, but pushing through them brings strength and wisdom. Magic often happens right outside the comfort zone. Brace yourself and push through that initial discomfort.
Self-discovery. Self-discovery often arises from moments of uncertainty.
Individuality. Celebrate your individuality and unique essence. Let go of the self-judgment, and do not seek validation from others. Your worth is rooted deep within your authentic self.
Life’s Journey itself is the destination. Life isn’t just about reaching peaks, it is about traversing valleys, pushing through discomfort, and finding strength in vulnerability.
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“Join us on a captivating journey as we delve deep into the remarkable life and insights of former Vice Chief of Air Staff, Air Marshal Anil Khosla (Retd.), PVSM, AVSM, VM. From his illustrious career in the Indian Air Force to navigating the complex landscapes of Geopolitics, UN, NATO, and the intricate relationships between India and its neighboring nations, this conversation is a masterclass in leadership and strategic thinking. Discover the unseen threads that weave through the skies of camaraderie as Air Marshal Khosla shares anecdotes of squadron bonds and the importance of teamwork. And don’t miss out on unraveling the mystery behind his love for puzzles, offering a unique perspective on problem-solving and innovation. Tune in to gain invaluable insights and be inspired by the wisdom of a distinguished leader who has soared to great heights both in the skies and in life”.
– Santosh Kumar
Podcaster, Speaker, Author
“Between us..” is a podcast hosted by Santosh Kumar. He is a podcaster, speaker, a first time author. The idea of between us stems from the fact that every conversation matters. So using podcast as a medium, he bring people from diverse backgrounds, who have made an impact in every day lives, engaging them in a meaningful conversation.
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“Courage is the virtue that is at the centre of the golden mean between foolhardiness (excessive courage) and cowardice (insufficient courage)”.
-Aristotle
Courage is essential for great leadership. Without courage, leaders can’t do the things they must do. Courage is the mental and moral strength which helps us venture forth, confront danger, face our fears and challenges, and persevere.
Courage is one quality that drives transformational leadership and personal and institutional success. It is the single most decisive trait in a leader. Without it, one cannot lead as leaders without courage are not inspiring and not worth following.
“leaders who lack courage aren’t leaders.”
-John McCain, former U.S. Senator and Navy veteran
We often think of physical courage, but there are different types of courage – emotional, intellectual, social, moral, and spiritual courage.
Widely popular beliefs are that “Courage is big heroic acts” and “it is an attribute that only a few extraordinary leaders possess because they are born with it”.
Most courageous acts are small, but they are never insignificant. Small courageous acts stacked upon each other add up. These even include doing the right thing when it’s not easy and trying again right after failing.
One of the definitions of Courage is – “ability to do something that frightens you.”
Being fearless is not the same as being courageous.
Courageous leaders create clarity, not confusion.
A lack of courage creates stagnation.
Courage is a skill that anyone can develop.
Courageous leadership entails many things, including:-
Stopping ourselves when we’re about to do something wrong.
Challenging others when they’re about to do something wrong.
Setting boundaries and saying no sometimes even when it may disappoint or anger others.
Challenging injustices.
Making decisions and moving forward despite limited information.
Stepping into challenging situations where there’s conflict, instead of avoiding such situations.
Being willing to be wrong sometimes.
Shaking things up to move forward instead of playing it safe and maintaining the status quo.
Taking risks and being willing to fail fast and learn.
Demanding action.
Following through to make sure things are done right.
Holding people accountable for core commitments.
Building up Courage:-
Quantify the Best Possible Outcome. Our brains constantly evaluate either the pain or gain in every situation. Highlighting the benefits and allowing the brain to visualise them is a decisive step in the process of being more courageous.
Acknowledge your Fears. Write Down the Worst Possible Outcome. The human brain processes fear and control the responses to it. It is wired to avoid things that can be harmful. Getting in the habit of writing down the worst possible outcome often provides insight that the worst scenario isn’t actually all that bad.
Deal with the Emotions. Emotions such as doubt or fear do exist and being open and honest about them is not a weakness but a strength.
“Emotions are data, not directives. We get to choose who we want to be; our emotions don’t.”
Trust your Instincts. Sometimes, the most courageous thing you can do is trust your gut. If something feels off, don’t be afraid to speak up and voice your concerns.
Stretch Yourself. Challenge yourself by taking the initiative to push yourself out of your comfort zone. This is where real growth begins.
Take Calculated Risks. Before making any decision, consider the potential risks and benefits, and weigh them carefully. If you believe the benefits outweigh the risks, then take the leap.
Fail to Succeed. There’s not a single success story on the planet that didn’t evolve out of some mistake or the other. When you fail, take the time to reflect on what went wrong and what you would do differently the next time.
A courageous leader sets his fears aside and leads his people, team, and organisation to a better place.
“Courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.”
-Nelson Mandela
Quotations
“It’s easy to stand with the crowd. It takes courage to stand alone.”
-Mahatma Gandhi
“Without courage, all other virtues lose their meaning.”
-Winston Churchill
“You’ll never do anything in this world without courage. It’s the greatest quality of the mind next to honour.”
-Aristotle
“Courage faces fear and thereby masters it. Cowardice represses fear and is thereby mastered by it.”
-Martin Luther King
“God, grant me the courage not to give up what I think is right even though I think it is hopeless.”
-Chester Nimitz, U.S. Navy Admiral
“When we practice the behaviours of courage, we become courageous.”
-Gus Lee with Diane Elliott-Lee
“One man with courage makes a majority.”
-Andrew Jackson
“Courage was the X factor in change. Courage is the virtue that’s needed if we’re truly going to transform our lives. Courage is the virtue that’s needed if we’re going to enact anything that is significantly important to us. Courage is the virtue that’s needed if we’re going to change the status quo.”
-James Kouzes and Barry Posner, A Leader’s Legacy
“Courage is not the absence of fear, but the capacity to act despite our fears.”
-John McCain, war hero and former U.S. Senator
“You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing which you think you cannot do.”
-Eleanor Roosevelt, former First Lady, diplomat, and activist
“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts.”
-Winston Churchill, former British Prime Minister
“Courage is contagious. When a brave man takes a stand, the spines of others are stiffened.”
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