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475: REMEMBERING DADU: SELF MADE LEGEND

 

“Legends are made, not born”.

Some are self-made.

Their actions speak rather than the words.

 

 

Air Marshal Partha Kumar  Dey PVSM AVSM

Former AOC-in-C South Western Air Command, Indian Air Force

 

 

Fifth PK Dey memorial lecture is scheduled on 18 May 24 at Bangalore International Center. 

 

 

 

Air Marshal PK Dey Was well known in the Indian Air Force for his acumen, Intelligence and straight forward approach. He was an exceptional professional, a good human being, a true friend, a loving – son, husband, brother, father and grand father. He was known as Babi in his friend circle, at home he was Baba for all of us. Once the grand children were born, all of us fondly started addressing him as DADU. 

 

We all do miss him.

Thinking of you, and wishing you a peaceful and happy time wherever you are. With love from Asha, Nikhil, Deepshikha, Anil, Adhir, Pranav, Adithi and so many of us !!

 

He had a very Illustrious career 

      • Youngest officer to be commissioned in the IAF at the age of 19 years and 8 months.

 

      • Youngest to become a test pilot at the age of 24 years.

 

  • Youngest to be awarded AVSM as a Wing Commander.

 

      • Flew almost sixty types of aircraft.
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      • Served in ASTE in every rank. Commanded it twice (as air commodore and as Air Vice Marshal).
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      • Commanded two fighter squadrons and two bases.

The list is endless…….

 

His Air Force Journey in his own words

 

 

 

 

I Learnt from him……..

Air Marshal PK Dey( Baba / Dadu) was much more than a Father-in Law to me. He was my role Model.  Some of the things I picked from him:-

 

      • Be a good human being first and then a professional.

 

      • Do not procrastinate (His table was always bare as he cleared all the work and files immediately).

 

      • Do not hesitate to take considered decisions.

 

      • Delegate and give subordinates freedom to work.

 

      • Be aware – read, read and read.

 

      • Be frank and speak your mind – call spade a spade. Give your honest opinion.

 

      • Be tolerant to others, their views and beliefs. Do not impose your ideas and beliefs onto others. 

 

      • Maintain Balance. Work hard and play harder.

 

 

Some Coincidences….

      • Both of us played Squash in our earlier years.

 

      • Both of us were keen puzzle and crossword solvers.

 

      • His service number was 4404, and that is number of hours I flew in my service career.

 

 

रास्ते बदल जाते हैं, मौसम बदल जाते हैं
बस बातें रह जाती हैं, यादें रह जाती हैं

 

His Testing Memories

 

The Partition: As he remembered.

 

Tribute  by Gp Capt Kapil Bhargava

 

 

 

 

 

As remembered by  Air Marshal Inamdar

 

As Remembered by Air Marshal Raghu Rajan

 

As Remembered by Vice Admiral Vinod Pasricha

 

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468: LEADERSHIP: A Privilege

 

 

“Leadership is not about titles, positions, or flowcharts. It is about one life influencing another.”

 

– John C. Maxwell

 

Titles and positions of authority do not make one a leader but provide an opportunity to be a leader by making a profound difference in the lives of others by listening and understanding, elevating and inspiring.

 

Leadership, is a responsibility, a calling, a privilege.

 

Leadership demands a perspective shift in focus from the self to the collective, from gaining power to empowering others.

 

Value of Listening. Leadership is not about having all the answers, but about asking the right questions and truly hearing the responses. True leaders understand the value of listening. By deeply listening, leaders gain invaluable insights while showing respect and acknowledgement. This fosters trust, an essential ingredient for cohesion and collaboration.

 

Understanding. Understanding is the foundation of leadership. It’s not enough to simply hear; a true leader must empathize, relate, and interpret the underlying emotions and motivations. This depth of understanding ensures that leaders are attuned to the needs, aspirations, and challenges of those they lead, and are prepared to provide guidance, support, and mentorship.

 

“If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader.”

-John Quincy Adams

 

Inspiration. The fundamental principle of leadership is inspiration. It’s about lighting that spark within individuals, making them realise their potential and helping them see possibilities they never imagined. It is about a commitment to unlocking the latent potential of every individual.

 

Cohesion. Cohesive and effective team building is another pivotal aspect of leadership. Leaders create an environment conducive to growth and achievement by recognising the unique strengths of each individual and placing them in roles where they can thrive. But beyond that, it’s about fostering a sense of belonging, a culture of collaboration, and an environment where everyone feels valued.

 

Genuine leadership is not about ruling; it’s about serving.

 

Leadership is about influencing, impacting and inspiring.

 

Leadership is not about being at the top of the pyramid but being the foundation upon which others can stand tall.

 

Leadership is measured by the mark one leaves on people’s hearts, not by hierarchy.

 

Leadership is about listening deeply, understanding profoundly, and inspiring endlessly.

 

Leaders who lead with empathy, compassion, and genuine care, don’t just create followers, but cultivate future leaders.

 

Leadership is a privilege, and a sacred trust given to one. It should be embraced as an honour.

 

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467: Embrace Your Journey

 

Embrace life’s journey, every experience, good or bad, has been a stepping stone to the person you’ve become today.

 

Embrace every phase, every stumble; they’re crafting your story. Each trial, each moment of doubt, is a lesson to be grasped.

 

Life’s journey is filled with both shadows and light. Every step on the winding path and every stone crossed holds the promise of growth and the beauty of a new dawn.

 

Treat your quirks like badges of honour, through these encounters, we truly get to know ourselves and understand our place in the world.

 

Negative Feelings. There will be negative feelings. They are like passing clouds and part of the journey called life. Do not let them define you or cloud your mind. Accept and understand them, and move forward without getting anchored down.

 

Fear of Unknown. There are times when the fear of the unknown terrifies you. Keep the faith and trust the process. Life has a funny way of surprising us, even the darkest of nights, have a promise of dawn.

 

Face the Challenge. Every challenge is an avenue of growth. It might initially seem difficult or insurmountable, but pushing through them brings strength and wisdom. Magic often happens right outside the comfort zone. Brace yourself and push through that initial discomfort.

 

Self-discovery. Self-discovery often arises from moments of uncertainty.

 

Individuality. Celebrate your individuality and unique essence. Let go of the self-judgment, and do not seek validation from others. Your worth is rooted deep within your authentic self.

 

Life’s Journey itself is the destination. Life isn’t just about reaching peaks, it is about traversing valleys, pushing through discomfort, and finding strength in vulnerability.

 

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