{"id":4844,"date":"2022-04-01T19:00:48","date_gmt":"2022-04-01T13:30:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/55nda.com\/blogs\/anil-khosla\/?p=4844"},"modified":"2024-12-27T16:22:49","modified_gmt":"2024-12-27T10:52:49","slug":"communication-skills-and-body-language","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/55nda.com\/blogs\/anil-khosla\/2022\/04\/01\/communication-skills-and-body-language\/","title":{"rendered":"250: COMMUNICATION SKILLS AND BODY LANGUAGE"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4849 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/55nda.com\/blogs\/anil-khosla\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/transparent-gesture-orator-public-speaking-clip-art-finger-5d7b47a08e2f09.0871205415683603525824-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/55nda.com\/blogs\/anil-khosla\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/transparent-gesture-orator-public-speaking-clip-art-finger-5d7b47a08e2f09.0871205415683603525824-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/55nda.com\/blogs\/anil-khosla\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/transparent-gesture-orator-public-speaking-clip-art-finger-5d7b47a08e2f09.0871205415683603525824-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/55nda.com\/blogs\/anil-khosla\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/transparent-gesture-orator-public-speaking-clip-art-finger-5d7b47a08e2f09.0871205415683603525824.jpg 900w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 8pt;\">Pic courtesy Net<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #800080;\">Communication is an art\/skill.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #003366;\">As a speaker, you are a salesman trying to sell your idea.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #008000;\"><strong><u>DOs<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #0000ff;\"><u>Provide a Reason for the Audience to Listen.<\/u> Tell the audience why they should listen carefully to you. Tell them what is in it for them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #800080;\"><u>Give Perspective<\/u>. Generally, the chosen topics are very broad-based. Providing a perspective narrows down the scope and also provides the framework for the talk.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #800000;\"><u>Establish Credibility.<\/u> Give the audience a reason to believe your claim. Point out why your thoughts and your words are relevant and they matter.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #333399;\"><u>Save the Best for Last.<\/u> Once you have the audience\u2019s attention, speak about what you need them to hear. To keep the interest alive keep providing glimpses of what is coming up.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #993300;\"><u>Correlate Issues with the Audience<\/u>. Establish the repercussions of the issues being discussed. Focus your communication on the issues that the audience correlates with.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #800080;\"><u>Provide Obvious Seeming Solutions<\/u>. Good communication provides solutions. Do not make them sound too complex, instead make them seem obvious. This gives the audience a sense of ownership and increases their interest.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #008000;\"><u>Crystal Gaze<\/u>. Always resort to some amount of crystal gazing and forecasting about things to come in the future.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<table width=\"100%\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-4848 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/55nda.com\/blogs\/anil-khosla\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/body-language_0066f46bde-300x169.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\" srcset=\"https:\/\/55nda.com\/blogs\/anil-khosla\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/body-language_0066f46bde-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/55nda.com\/blogs\/anil-khosla\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/body-language_0066f46bde.jpg 384w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 8pt;\">Pic courtesy Net<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline; color: #003366;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Body Language: Avoid These Blunders<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #003366;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #003366;\">Our bodies have a language of their own.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #003366;\">Body language is a very powerful tool.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #003366;\"><strong><u>DONTs<\/u><\/strong><strong>:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #003366;\"><u>Crossed Arms<\/u>.\u00a0Creates a physical barrier that suggests you\u2019re not open to what the other person is saying. The other person may get a sense that you\u2019re shutting him or her out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #003366;\"><u>Exaggerated Gestures<\/u><strong>. <\/strong>Instead aim for small, controlled, and open gestures.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #800080;\"><u>Turning Yourself Away.<\/u> Conveys that you are unengaged, uninterested, uncomfortable, and perhaps even distrustful.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u00a0<span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><u>Slouching.<\/u>\u00a0It is a sign of disrespect. It communicates that you\u2019re bored and have no desire to be where you are.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #0000ff;\"><u>Avoiding Eye Contact<\/u>.\u00a0It arouses suspicion and also indicates a lack of confidence and interest. Sustained eye contact, on the other hand, communicates confidence, leadership, strength, and intelligence.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #008000;\"><u>Too Intense Eye Contact.<\/u> It may be perceived as an aggressive dominating approach.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #800000;\"><u>Watching the Clock<\/u><u> Frequently<\/u>.\u00a0It is a sign of impatience and disrespect. It sends the message that you have better things to do than talk to the person you\u2019re with.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #003300;\"><u>Fidgeting and Exaggerated Nodding<\/u>.\u00a0It distracts and signals anxiousness.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #800080;\"><u>Scowling<\/u><u> or Unhappy Expression<\/u>. \u00a0This sends the message that you\u2019re upset by those around you, and it turns people away. Smiling, on the other hand, suggests that you\u2019re open, trustworthy, confident, and friendly.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #800000;\"><u>Weak Handshakes<\/u>.\u00a0A weak handshake signals a lack of confidence, while a too strong one could be perceived as an aggressive attempt at domination.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #003300;\"><u>Getting Too Close<\/u>.\u00a0Standing too close makes people uncomfortable. Respect others\u2019 personal space.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #993300;\"><u>Bottom Line<\/u><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #993300;\">Keep the Audience awake and interested.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline; color: #008000;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Learnt with Experience<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; color: #008000;\">People love catchy phrases.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #ff0000;\"><u>Suggestions and value additions are most welcome<\/u><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt; color: #008000;\">For regular updates, please register here<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"S6w4AJa3Cb\"><p><a href=\"https:\/\/55nda.com\/blogs\/anil-khosla\/subscribe\/\">Subscribe<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" style=\"position: absolute; clip: rect(1px, 1px, 1px, 1px);\" title=\"&#8220;Subscribe&#8221; &#8212; Air Marshal&#039;s Perspective\" src=\"https:\/\/55nda.com\/blogs\/anil-khosla\/subscribe\/embed\/#?secret=fmqnA3xNdD#?secret=S6w4AJa3Cb\" data-secret=\"S6w4AJa3Cb\" width=\"525\" height=\"296\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><u>References and credits<\/u><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">To all the online news channels.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Pic courtesy Net &nbsp; Communication is an art\/skill. &nbsp; As a speaker, you are a salesman trying to sell your idea. &nbsp; DOs &nbsp; Provide a Reason for the Audience to Listen. Tell the audience why they should listen carefully to you. Tell them what is in it for them. &nbsp; Give Perspective. 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